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Play Ball!

Growing up, I was a tomboy. I loved sports, especially baseball. I hate to brag but honestly, I was a better ball player than most of the boys in my neighborhood. Every spring when the little league had it’s parade and the baseball season started, I was so jealous of the boys, because back then girls were not allowed to play baseball. All I could do was watch the games from the bleachers.

As I got older, I did play some girls softball in school and even made the varsity team in my first year of High School. But it wasn’t the same and it was short-lived, since I had to get a job and could no longer play after-school sports.

Years later, when I found out I was pregnant, I was hoping for a boy, so that I could teach him how to play baseball and maybe I would even coach little league. Even if I had a girl, that would be fine too, at least she would be allowed to play, if she wanted to. When I found out I was having twin boys, I was thrilled! Surely one of them would like baseball.

Well, things didn’t work out the way I’d planned. Aaron has absolutely no interest in sports of any kind. I think Eric would have liked sports, but that didn’t work out quite the way I expected either. Eric knows nothing about baseball, but rather than teaching him how to play, he taught me that it’s not whether you win or lose or how you play the game, it’s having fun that counts:-)

Eric at Bat
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HELLO! We Need Health Care Reform Now!

I am just amazed by the number of right-wing crazies who are fighting against health care reform when they have no idea what they are talking about. The GOP backed by the insurance companies are using the republican scare tactics and false rumors to protect their interests. They don’t want the current system to change, because they are getting rich off the status quo. People are afraid of what they don’t understand and the majority of Americans don’t understand our health care system.

The major problem with our current health care system is that it is geared toward making money for the big insurance companies. The more claims they deny, the more money they make. This consumerism approach is fine for things like houses and cars, but not when dealing with sick people. So you have these corporate executives getting rich off of our premiums and co-pays, while skimping on services and denying benefits.

Quality health care should be a right for all Americans, not a privilege and a single-payer system is the most efficient, cost saving way to provide all Americans with quality health care.

I’ve been debating Universal Health Care on a few private forums, but with all the controversy currently going on over health care reform, I thought I post some comments here:

– We pay for the uninsured one way or another, through higher costs for all of us.

– The uninsured end up costing more money in the long run, because they neglect preventative care.

– Uninsured people are clogging up our Emergency Rooms.

– Universal Health Care would take a huge burden off of businesses, especially small businesses.

– People would not lose coverage if they lose their jobs.

– People will get the help they need, regardless of what state they happen to live in.

– Doctors pay way too much for malpractice insurance.

– 50 million Americans have no health insurance at all.

– Many can’t even get insurance because of “pre-existing conditions”.

– Those who do have coverage can go broke trying to pay co-pays with a catastrophic condition.

– More Americans go bankrupt every year due to medical bills than for any other reason.

– The system has not changed because lobbyist for the big insurance companies control many of our elected officials.

– It’s not only the insurance companies making lots of money; it’s also the pharmaceutical companies charging outrageous amounts for medications.

– The current system is confusing and unfair.

– Many people think they are covered until they get sick and discover the fine print on their insurance policies.

Paying for health care through taxes will actually save us all money in the long run. We pay for the uninsured one way or another, through higher costs for all of us. With a single payer system we can cut out the middleman and actually save money. If you are happy with your current insurance company, keep it, but don’t stand in the way of progress.

Bottom line? We are the riches country in the world and we have the most expensive health care system. Yet our health care system ranks #37 in the world according to the World Health Organization. We are the only country in the western world without free universal health care for all of our citizens. I think this is shameful and unethical.

Now, those of you who know me, know that I’m a liberal democrat, but I’m also an RN with over 25 years experience working in the health care field and the mother of three children with special needs. I have to deal with both private and public insurance on a regular basis. I also help other families of children and adults with disabilities, as well as children with specialized health care needs who are technology dependent. Not a day goes by when I don’t hear about children who can not live at home because their family can not get home nursing, or the child who can’t get the equipment they need because their insurance wont cover it, or the family whose child has “capped out” on their private insurance benefits, or the family who has to wait 10 years for a medicaid waiver, just because they happen to live in a state that doesn’t see health care as a priority. I could go on and on with this list… I simply can’t imagine being against health care reform, regardless of ones political party. Our current system stinks, plain and simple.

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In The News

Here is a scan from this weeks Grafton News. Hard to believe the twins are 16 years old. I think they were about 18 months old in this photo.

16 years and we are still wondering what their full potentials will be. I guess that is true for all parents, although the expectations and possibilities are quite different. That said, parents of children with special needs usually learn early on that as long as their children are healthy and happy, the rest is just icing on the birthday cake.

16 years ago the twins were born on July 28, 1993; three and a half months too soon. Their due date was October 31, so more of a trick than a treat for their parents. But still amazing how far they have come. Had they been born just 10 years earlier, they would have been a miscarriage, so I suppose whatever they accomplish in their lives is just more frosting. But for myself, I would have missed out on so many valuable lessons. My life would be very different now and quite dull, I’m sure.

We took the twins to Six Flags for their birthday. Cousin Nick came along too and we had a fun time. Happy Birthday Eric and Aaron!

Six Flags New England
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What is man’s greatest achievement?

With the 40th anniversary of NASA’s Apollo 11 mission, CNN polled people from around the world and asked them the question, “What is man’s greatest achievement?” They got a surprising variety of answers to this question. While a few people did say the luna landing, this was usually not the answer. Here are some of the opinions in no particular order:

Fire
The Wheel
The Computer
The Airplane
The Written Word
The Alphabet
Architecture
Agriculture
Coffee
Sanitation
Music
Space Travel
The Internet
Antibiotics
Sliced bread
Discovery of the Atom
Velcro
Nuclear Fission
The Pyramids
Satellite Communication
Language
Plastic
Religion
Vaccines

I think I’d pick antibiotics. What do you think is man’s greatest achievement?

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